Motherhood In Medicine

Being a mother in medicine, especially as an OB/GYN resident, is an incredibly challenging and deeply rewarding balancing act. The long hours in the hospital, the sleepless nights on call, and the emotional weight of caring for patients make it hard enough. But add the demands of motherhood to the mix, and it feels, at times, like I’m being stretched in every direction possible.

Time away from my family is one of the hardest parts of this journey. Missing milestones, bedtime stories, and simply being present can lead to intense feelings of guilt. "Mom guilt" is real, and it doesn’t take much to start questioning whether I’m doing enough for my child or missing out on moments I can never get back. But as difficult as these feelings are, coming home at the end of a long shift makes every hug, smile, and "I missed you" all the sweeter. Motherhood gives my work more meaning - it reminds me why I became a doctor in the first place.

In many ways, being a mother has made me a better physician - and I have no doubt it does the same for you. As an OB/GYN, I often walk with women through one of the most significant moments of their lives, becoming a mother. Having gone through it allows me to connect with my patients in ways I couldn’t have before. I understand the fear, the joy, and the uncertainty that come with pregnancy, childbirth, and beyond. This shared experience fosters empathy, making me better equipped to care for them.

Despite the challenges, I’ve realized that you don’t have to choose between being a great doctor and a great mother. It’s possible to do both - and to do them well. Society often makes women feel we must pick one path, but I’ve found that each role enhances the other. Motherhood fuels my passion for medicine, and my work reminds me of the strength and resilience I bring to both roles. Yes, it’s hard. But it’s also possible - and I just want you to know and trust that it’s worth it.