“I really want to apply ophthalmology but everyone I am talking to says it’s impossible. I can’t help but let that get to me. Any tips?”
“Bravery is being unafraid of something that other people are afraid of. Courage is being afraid but doing it anyway.” I read this quote recently, and it stuck with me. I think now is the time for courage. I think this line has stuck with me because if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s this: medicine takes courage at every turn.
Whether you’re an M1 just figuring out how to survive anatomy or you’re about to click submit on ERAS, remember this: you’ve already done the hard things. You’ve earned your stripes. No one can take away the sacrifices, the late nights, the tests you thought you’d fail but didn’t. That is yours forever.
So if you find yourself dreaming of ophthalmology, or any so-called “impossible” specialty, and everyone around you is quick to remind you how slim the odds are, I want you to know: you’re not alone. I remember the cautious warnings, the statistics whispered like ghost stories, the subtle push to look in an “easier” direction. Most people mean well, and they want to spare you disappointment. That being said, good intentions don’t make it any less discouraging to hear.
Here’s the truth: the loudest voices telling you not to try usually come from people who never did it themselves. In my experience, the ones who did match, the attendings living their dream, are almost always the first to cheer you on. They know what it takes, and they know it’s worth it.
Yes, it’s smart to be realistic. Not everyone wants to risk reapplying. You don’t have to risk it if that’s not for you. But if you are willing to bet on yourself, to try and fail and try again if you must, then why not stand firmly in your dream? I couldn’t picture myself doing anything else. That clarity made the risk feel worth it.
I truly believe there’s a corner of medicine for everyone who wants to care for others. When you find your place— your people, your patients, your purpose— you get to practice a kind of work that’s deeply satisfying and genuinely good for the world. It won’t always be easy, but it can be fulfilling in ways few other jobs can offer.
So take a breath. Be brave. Be courageous. And as any good athletic coach would say, leave all your heart on the field.
Someone will match into ophthalmology this cycle.
Why can’t that someone be you?