Empowered Surgeon Group Cabo

For five days, a private cohort of female surgeons steps out of performance mode and rebuilds two things at once: the thinking that runs their careers, and the strategy that thinking should have been serving all along.

January 6–10, 2027 · Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal

January 6 - 10, 2027

Why ESG Cabo?

High-performing surgeons rarely lack capability. What limits them is inherited thought architecture; beliefs and rules absorbed across a decade of training, never examined, still running.

Most work in this space stops there. It helps you feel better about a career you never actually chose.

We do not stop there. Over five days you will examine the beliefs shaping your trajectory, learn the physiology that turns a thought into a result, and then do the part almost nobody does — build a real strategy for the next five years on top of the architecture you just rebuilt.

A better mindset with no strategy is just feeling better on the same road. A strategy built on beliefs you never chose gets you up the wrong mountain faster.

This is structured, precise, executive-level work. It is not motivational. It is not abstract. It is applied.

Mel Thacker, MD & Frances Mei Hardin, MD

Five Days. Five Movements

Day 1   INVENTORY

Every surgeon arrives running rules she did not write. Day one is about taking an honest inventory of where you are, why you came, what you desire, and what is standing in your way.

Day 2   MECHANISM

How a thought becomes a feeling, a feeling becomes an action, and an action becomes the career, and life, you currently have. The Model, Intentional Belief Creation, and Facing Limiting Beliefs. This is the engine room.

Day 3   EMPOWERMENT

What has the power to cause major energy leaks on a daily basis? Drama. Participants will learn the components of the Drama Triangle and how to shift to The Empowerment Dynamic. Most of us cycle through these roles a dozen times a day without noticing we've done it. This session is about choosing the role we want to embody.

Day 4   STRATEGY

The rebuilt operating system, pointed at something. What the next five years actually look like: the decisions already in front of you, what you are saying yes to by default, what you will stop, and how you want to make an impact on the world. Your second mountain, designed rather than stumbled onto. Whether that's building a brand, pivoting into a side gig, or becoming more visible, we will teach you how to find your voice and present your value to the world with integrity.

Day 5   COMMITMENT

The part retreats skip. What you do on Monday, what you do in March, and the mechanism that holds when this meets your inbox. You leave with decisions, not inspiration.

What This Is. And What This Isn't.

Not CME. Not a conference. Not a writing workshop. Not a wellness retreat with a spa attached. Ten to fifteen surgeons, two coaches, five days, and a considerable amount of work.


This Experience Includes

—   Ocean-view room with private plunge pool

—   Private yacht cruise in the Sea of Cortez

—   World-class spa service onsite

—   All food and beverage

—   Dedicated programming space

—   A 90-minute private 1:1 session with Mel

—   A curated international cohort of surgeons

—   A 6-week Diversification Lab to implement the building of a mosaic career.

The Setting

The Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal sits where the Baja mountains meet the Pacific, reached through a private tunnel cut into granite cliffs. Terraced villas descend toward the water, each built for privacy, light and an uninterrupted view of the ocean.

For five days it becomes a room with no pager in it. No clinic schedule, no inbox, no one who needs a decision in the next ninety seconds. The setting is not the reward for the work. It is the condition that makes the work possible. You cannot think new thoughts in the same chair.

The Group

Ten to fifteen surgeons, selected deliberately. No lectures, no posturing, no networking in the conference-hall sense of the word. A small enough room that nobody gets to sit at the back, and a group that will still be holding you to this in June.

Step into the future of surgical leadership

What You'll Leave With

—  The foundational mindset shifts that serve as a launch pad for every big thing you create.

—   A set of tools you can pick up to create self-trust when you are doubting yourself in the OR.

—   A mindset and strategy playbook for how to diversify your career beyond surgeon if and when you choose to.

—   A community of surgeons who, like you, refuse to simply take the moral injury of our profession.